The purpose of being a woman, what is it?

People’s views on the question of women’s destiny have changed so much in recent decades, or even a century, that not everyone can answer it.

Many believe that being born a woman is a punishment. Sexual discrimination, disenfranchisement, early aging and the need to keep house and bear children are only some of the things that are expected of women.

Stereotypes, actively imposed by society today, make it clear that a woman who does only women’s things is inferior, limited, small-minded and generally unable to do anything else.. That is why many women of the fair sex forget that they have a delicate and vulnerable nature, which is not meant to be the one who drags everything on herself, trying to do as much work as possible (including physical work).

Choosing a way of life, which for centuries has been male, women poison themselves, ruin their health, destroy relationships. What kind of happiness then can we talk about at all? Pleasing only to society, women are doing worse for themselves.

Think about it: is nature so stupid that she made men and women different, not like each other? Halves, for each of which are peculiar certain qualities, exist in a perfect tandem, complement each other in harmony. That is why to exist in peace, love and harmony, men and women do not need to deny themselves, their role in this world.

Let’s take a closer look at what is the purpose of a woman, what prevents her become happy and content with life. To understand this, we need to know if the purpose of man and woman is different.

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What is it like to be a woman?

Someone from above decided to create a woman and a man, which would be different just to complement each other, to be a support. There is an opinion that a woman was born for love. But, we can disagree: a woman is love. She has been given opportunities that she can use for good:

Beauty. One only has to look at even a very trim nude male and a beautiful nude female body, and it becomes clear that nothing can be as mesmerizing as the loveliness of a woman’s outline.
The ability to negotiate. After all, women are the best diplomats. She has the ability to build and maintain harmonious relations with other people, if necessary, to agree.
Natural empathy. Women are able to empathize, understand people and their true desires. They are soft and sensual.
The ability to surround with coziness. Even by hanging nice curtains, putting flowers in a vase, or rearranging furniture, women manage to make any place more cozy.
Intuition. It is unlikely that someone will argue that women have a sixth sense developed much better than men, and the true representatives of the beautiful sex know how to listen to it.
Emotionality. Women are many times more acute experience of all the emotions and feelings. Yes, disappointment, pain and fear they experience more. But they also experience feelings of happiness, love and elation many times stronger.
The ability to give life. Producing children is something only women can do. Nine months carrying a child under her heart and experiencing a lifelong bond with her is the greatest gift, a miracle, the power of a woman’s destiny.

You may say that not all women have these abilities. Well, that’s what it’s all about: the true woman who listens to her nature and doesn’t go against it gets all these opportunities. And those who try to take on male responsibilities, work themselves to the point of exhaustion, and deny who they are.

Some people have a reasonable question: what is a woman to do when she has no male support and has to struggle with the hardships of life on her own? That’s the thing. A woman who radiates true feminine energy will attract worthy men who are willing to give their beloved everything she needs.. A woman should allow herself to be weak and gentle – the one who wants to be cared for, pampered and cherished.

Why do women do things that are foreign to them?

Women – the helpers of men, who make their lives more beautiful, brighter, brighter. They help their loved ones feel stronger by healing their wounds after falls. Women need to be gentle creatures who demand protection. Then men want to protect, care for, be responsible for their chosen one.

But then, why do we try to become the one who carries everything on her shoulders? Why do we avoid the possibility of becoming the one who will simply be loved rather than the one who is expected to perform feats?

Why do we choose brute masculinity, forgetting who we are? Why do we spend our lives searching for better jobs or recognition? Why do we spend most of our lives striving to be better and more successful in the future rather than enjoying life here and now? Read An article about self-care and why it’s important.

Why do we want to find “his” man, still find him, and then take him to change, “nag” and suppress? And the whole thing in the stereotypes that have developed literally in the last hundred years.

You need to accept not only female nature, but male nature as well. Don’t chop the wings of your chosen ones by criticizing and controlling them. Let them show their essence.

What is the true purpose of a woman?

What is the the uniqueness of and the main female purpose? Unfortunately, today society is dominated by rigid stereotypes, according to which the manifestation of femininity is almost the main disadvantage.

In general femininity is something like a synonym of weakness. We are massively imposed the idea that we should always strive for superiority. It is necessary to have a well-paid job, a rich partner, perfect appearance and so on. But can one be happy only if one is the first in everything or in something? That’s a huge misconception!

Even if one were to speak of true womanhood… as a weakness, is that a flaw? In fact, a truly wise woman can get everything she needs without making huge physical efforts or trying to be a “hero”. Her main weapon is flexibility, gentleness, and the nature of acceptance.

This does not mean that you have to accept a man’s dismissive attitude. A real woman will not tolerate that. She will be with someone who is strong in spirit. It is not for nothing that they say that behind every great man there is a great woman. There is another expression: “A man is the head, and a woman is the neck. Give your chosen one to express themselves, do not try to take a leading position.

Listen to your origins, think about what were centuries ago views on femininity. You will not be surprised if you find out that since time immemorial, a woman was the keeper of the hearth – tender, strong-willed and capricious to a degree, and sensual. She is emotional, sorry and empathetic, but that is her beauty.

Weakness is the source of a woman’s strength. Do not torture your loved one with empty moral teachings. Instead, show your helplessness. A real man will do everything in order to warm his beloved, to give her and her children everything they need.

In general, there are two powers: the brute power of the conqueror and the gentle power of submission. And it’s up to you to decide which one to choose.

Duties of a woman

You can’t say that being a woman is easy. It requires hard work, showing true feminine qualities, which can not but bring pleasure. And it’s not just about cooking for the whole family, washing, ironing or cleaning.

A woman’s responsibilities are not just about household tasks. They are more profound, but simple enough, and hide the realization of their rights and the rights of their loved ones.

So, what it all rests on:

Self-care. It begins, first of all, with the desire to take care of oneself, to please oneself and one’s body. A woman who takes care of how she dresses and applies makeup, takes care of her hair and nails, allows herself a healthy diet and physical activity to keep her body toned, wins in two aspects at once. First, she looks great for herself and her husband. Second, she draws energy that makes her look even more beautiful and feel even better. A woman needs to make time for herself to be groomed, at least for an hour a day.

According to Vedic law, a woman who goes out in public should look modest and not defiant. At home, on the contrary, she should dress in her best, wear her best jewelry, and do her hair in the most beautiful way. And what happens in reality, so to speak, in life? Women (as well as many men) dress up only for those around them, and not for themselves or the people closest to them. Because of this, they give an impressive part of their energy to outsiders, forgetting about their husband and children. Who benefits from this? Certainly not the woman and her loved ones.

Caring for the near and needy. There is a widespread belief that children should be taken care of in the first place. But if it is important to a woman that her marriage not break up, she should first of all take care of her husband. Back in the old days it was customary that the husband was given priority over the children, because he was the head of the family. Now things have changed. Most families have completely different values – the best is given to the children first, and what is left of them is shared with the husband. It is worth remembering that children do not learn by word of mouth, but by the example of others. Because of this attitude, the problem of disrespect for the elders by the young has become acute. If the same thing happens from generation to generation, there is a perverse hierarchy in the world.. There are other cases where a woman puts herself first, without taking into account the needs of her husband and children. As a result, this only leads to disharmonization of the family.

It is safe to say that in many ways the happiness of the family depends on how the woman feels, how happy and harmonious she is. If she takes care of herself and others, each family member will feel loved and be able to love her neighbor.

The First Steps to Femininity

How do you become feminine and what do you need to do? In fact, everything is quite simple. You may have to overpower yourself a little in the first period on the way to the transformation. But the main thing – to start, and then everything will go its way.

So, the first steps are:

Stop vanity! Have you noticed that as soon as you change clothes or skirts, your walk, self-perception, perception of the world changes. Running and fussing just won’t work. A woman should live for herself and be unhurried and peaceful. Fuss – it’s not for her. Calmness must reign around her.
Jewelry and accessories! This is something that is irreplaceable. Well-chosen accessories in the form of a beautiful scarf, a stylish handbag or elegant earrings make a woman as a woman. For since ancient times young girls and mature ladies wanted to adorn themselves with pretty things, and they made them from everything that was at hand – colorful stones, metal or wooden elements, flowers, shells, etc. Today it’s a sin not to use jewelry, a variety of which can make any fashionista’s head spin.
Communicating with other women! When we communicate, we are exchanging energy with each other. If we communicate mainly with men, then we will become more like men in behavior and thinking. By taking the time to interact with women, we draw resources to stay feminine. Make joint trips to spas, stores or some events, and you’ll get a regular charge of the right energy. True, try to choose for this purpose those who you like. People who cause negative emotions will not be able to give you what you need.

You are a woman. And that’s your gift. You have everything you need to be happy. Don’t go against your nature, but follow it.

If she has created women to be such tender and sensitive beings, who, however, are capable of becoming a strong emotional support, stop resisting your nature. After all, it is your destiny to be a woman.

With love and faith in you, Maria Shakti.