“Man simply cannot suffer any longer than he can suffer: having exhausted his possibilities, we voluntarily or involuntarily switch to other things, and that is the greatest of blessings!” (Max Fry).
It seems that anyone would wish to live only in happiness and joy and never experience the bitterness of loss and heartache. But, strangely enough, this is not always the case! Many people like to suffer and be tormented. Why does this happen?
Usually, the cause of suffering is the strongest internal conflict or unjustified human desires and hopes. This results in a host of unpleasant and uncomfortable feelings: anger, resentment, frustration. Read more about the essence of suffering.
All these negative emotions have a negative impact on the human psyche, sometimes knocking people out of their usual routine for a long period of time. But sooner or later this emotionally oppressive state passes.
But there are some people who enjoy pain They are ready to remain in constant suffering. Of course, it is hard to believe, but it is true. For them pain and moral suffering are normal and even desirable.
A person who loves pain acts as a victim in all life situations and is always ready to find the culprit of his problems and failures. These people are pathologically afraid to take responsibility for everything that happens in their lives. If you find similarities with yourself and this human psychotype, then I advise you to take all possible measures to get out of this dangerous state for yourself)).
How to get out of the victim state?
First, it’s very important to decide once and for all that you no longer want to suffer and be tormented. You have to want it sincerely and wholeheartedly–only then will you be able to jump out of this sticky swamp of misery into which you have lured yourself.
Begin to cultivate the belief that you deserve only a better and happier life. Thoughts have an amazing property to materialize. Get on the path to change, to consciousness and a happy life.
Secondly, try to accept all the circumstances that have arisen in your life as they are. They cannot be changed.
Concentrate on today and stop going back all the time to the past, which no man on earth has the power to change. But you can influence what will happen in your near future. Allow yourself to be an active participant in this important process, rather than a silent participant.
When you gather your spirit and begin to take the situation into your own hands, you will immediately get rid of the obsessive position of the victim. Further your perception of the world will change right in front of your eyes – you will begin to see in events not only negative, but also instructive lessons, the possibility of their own realization and self-development.
If you feel that you need help and support in your situation, I will be glad to see you at the training “The Sacrament of Life”. Your thoughts and feelings will change fundamentally. There will be a trust to yourself and the Universe as a whole, a special inner fullness and harmony, a feeling of your own importance on the planet.
You will feel that you are part of something important and meaningful, of the whole universe. Suffering will be replaced by an adequate perception of the world around you, and you will realize that you can enjoy your own life instead of silently drifting with the current.
With love Maria Shakti 
