Being in a state of love is an amazing state. It is uplifting, inspiring and makes the sea knee-deep.)) However, in this state we only want to see the good qualities of our partner.
We do not want to admit the obvious, and arrive in a haze of illusions about in relation to the man.. But then the time comes and we begin to see only the bad in the partner without noticing anything good. Thus, we fall to the other extreme.
Romantic relationships often begin during an intimate candlelit dinner or at night with a full moon. In such an intimate atmosphere, we give free rein to our imagination and fantasy and begin to idealize our partner, imagining that a super model or movie star is sitting in front of us.)))
We are like to fantasize, it protects us from reality. Dimmed lights don’t give away a partner’s skin imperfections or uneven teeth.)) Instead of increasing the power of the lights to illuminate reality, we finish the necessary portrait of our partner and enjoy our projection until it bursts like a soap bubble.
The Illusion of Love
There’s nothing wrong with romance; I’m not going to deny it. However, the illusion of love very often leads to serious 
relationship problems. The trouble with romance is that when illusions collapse, the disappointment can hurt us too much. In the case of romantic love, we don’t really love our partners: we only love the feelings they instill in us. Read more about this in the article where does love go.
What we really love is a certain emotional lift we feel in their presence, which is the reason for our addiction. When our lover or beloved is not around, we begin to miss them. Like any uplift, such love wanes over time.
Many people like to think that their relationship is special, real. But the first time we make a mistake in their manifestation, we throw a whole protocol of blame on our lovers and hand them a list of rules of conduct on top of that.))
True love also has nothing like the deal. Be a douche, we think, and then I’ll keep loving you. However, when we love we open our heart to those we love, whatever they do. And we really do feel that way. It’s very rare.
Are you ready for true love…?
Love Maria Shakti. 
