What do women dream about? Of course, about men. To love, protect, solve problems, to be a real man.
Someone with whom you feel cared for and with whom you can relax and take a break, and not run around trying to perform the duties of men yourself.
And such a man can really come into any woman’s life. Strong, confident, independent decision maker, who does not tolerate compromise. This is it, women’s happiness!
But what is the woman? Panic fear, Anxiety, fear of stepping forward. Why? Because a man like that has to to fit in .. Next to him you have to be feminine, tolerant, supportive. With him you can not behave as you please – he will not tolerate it. He doesn’t need a woman’s tantrums and attempts to take matters into her own hands. He needs a fragile, wise keeper of the hearth.
What is life like with a real man?
It is unpredictable. You never know what to expect from a real man, because he makes decisions, a woman’s
It’s a woman’s job to listen to him and to help him. Next to such a man can not stop being a woman, because it would be a step away. And around the way can be placed mines…. And who knows how the next deviation from the path of a True Woman will end up.
This is why women are afraid. Fear of the unknown, fear of not being able to cope, fear of inadequacy.
So it is with ordinary men! What to expect from them – you always know. They equally do not want to take responsibility, to work on relationships. And even if a woman next to such a man believes that he will change one day, she knows in her heart that he will never change. And she is comfortable because she knows what to expect from him.. And she is not afraid.
Next to an ordinary man there is no need to develop and become better, next to him you can not be a True Woman. You can sometimes try on a mask of femininity, but take it off whenever. No need to change their habits, lifestyle. It’s convenient. And for the sake of convenience, many women give up their feminine happiness, choosing an ordinary man. But it is not afraid, though without happiness.
Having met a real man, the female ego can begin to rebel, trying to change a man and make him more comfortable. After all, the man will make his own decisions, and they will not always be to the woman’s liking. But trying to curb a real man is the own murder of the dream of a strong shoulder by his side and a woman’s happiness. A real man cannot become a convenient wimp.
Real women
Men can be afraid of True Women, too. They are afraid of femininity if the man inside them is not mature, not yet ready to be around such a woman. After all, such a woman also needs to conformWith it you can not do as you please. She will not put up with men always lying on the couch, will not try to take work at home to feed the family. She will create comfort, create nice things, worry about the lack of money and bake pies. Next to her you have to be strong, you have to be responsible, you have to be a Man.
True femininity and true masculinity can be compared to a diamond, the value of which not everyone will understand. Not everyone will be able to afford such a gem, not everyone will be able to see the uniqueness of this stone.
Most people would rather pass by and buy cheap, but comfortable, costume jewelry. Let it be tasteless, too pretentious and similar to many other jewelry pieces, but it will be comfortable. And there is no fear with it, but there is fear with a diamond.
It is where it is a little scary, unaccustomed and uncomfortable that there is happiness. Only in such conditions does development and
growth begin, only there is the real thing. There a woman is always wise, she is a mother and a keeper of the home, and a man is a breadwinner and a warrior, he is always dangerous. And this relationship is True: he performs feats for her and dedicates victories to her, while she inspires him and accepts his love with dignity.
Learn to love each other, learn true femininity and masculinity. Be an example to your children and to those around you, and the world will change!
