How often do we think about how we look in the eyes of others, attach great importance to how society evaluates our actions? You would agree that quite often! So we have been brought up since childhood, that an unjustified habit of constantly looking back at the evaluation of others, is always with us.
And eventually, in the midst of all this concern for other people’s opinions, we begin to lose ourselves. We try to fit ourselves into some mold of how and where and to whom we should conform, wasting tons of energy. With such successes, before you know it, you’ll be living someone else’s life without having tasted the happiness of the freedom to be yourself.
But just think about how much and how much your life can change when you free yourself from public opinion, when you finally stop worrying about what others think of you.
To make my words more convincing, I suggest that you consider the pleasurable consequences of this justifiable risk-taking.
What the ability to live without public opinion will bring you
- First, you can finally direct your attention and energy to where the source of your pleasure is. You will begin to do things that are of interest to you and not to others. This alone is already worth a lot. The freedom to be who you really are will give you a new lease on life and awaken any dormant, unrealized potential.
- Over time, by acting on your inner responses and feelings, rather than on “I have to” and “what people think of me,” you will develop a strong connection with your intuition and become bolder in your decisions, leaving behind doubt and fear. If you don’t think about what people will say about every action you take, making choices will become much easier, because you will feel what your soul really wants.
- Being yourself and radiating your unique. Happy and free energy, you will attract into your new life the same interesting and wonderful people. People who will not judge you and who live on a wave of love and frequencies of respect for the choices of others. Perhaps many of the people around you will drop out on their own, but your relationships with your loved ones will go to a deeper and more meaningful level. I recommend reading How to learn to live for yourself..
- You will stop trying to prove something to someone and stop worrying about what someone disagrees with you. When you make a choice and deeply feel and understand that it is neither good nor bad, it is simply yours, then you are no longer afraid to be wrong, because the topic of error ceases to be relevant. We can never be right, soft and fluffy for everyone anyway, no matter how hard we try, it’s a waste of time and energy. That’s why it’s best to focus on what’s important to you, not what’s important to society.
- When you are not afraid to take risks and do something with all your passion, when you really like your lifestyle, it is lived with great pleasure and enthusiasm, and therefore success cannot pass you by.
- Your mood will no longer depend on others. Other people’s comments about you will lose their power and importance.
Of course, the words of people close to you can hurt, but Unproductive criticism will no longer be able to disturb your mood and harmony. - Living life in accordance with your nature and your true nature will very soon allow you to find your unique path and realize your dreams. For when we unbuckle the belts of other people’s opinions and jump into the open world, realizing and experiencing the joyful responsibility for our lives, we are able to open up entirely new possibilities and realities.
- And the interesting thing is that eventually you realize that other people have their own lives and concerns, and basically don’t care what you have going on. So your efforts to match are largely unwarranted?
With love, Maria Shakti
